等待~Waiting

等待, 是一件多么漫长的事情. Waiting, a matter that taking you a lot of time. 当你要求别人等你时, 你可有告诉他/她要等多久吗? When you ask other to wait for you, did you told him/her that how long he/she actually need to wait? 一下? 是多久啊? A while? How long is it? 你的一下或许是五分钟, 别人的一下或许是一分钟. A while for you maybe mean for five minutes, A while for other people might be just mean for one minutes. 没有人会理解到. Nobody will understand it. 在爱情里, 可能你会问对方 "你愿意等我吗?" In love, maybe you will ask your partner "Will you wait for me?" 可是, 你又可有想过你是希望对方等你多久呢? But, did you think that how long do you wish your partner to wait for you? 一年? 十年? 还是一辈子? One year? Ten years? Life time? 在日常生活里, 我们经常要别人等我们. In our daily live, we always ask other to wait for us. 无论回报是什么, 我们始终补偿不了他人为我们所流失掉的时间. No matter what we paid to those are waiting us, we cant pay him/her back the time that they had been lost just because of waiting for you. 要别人等, 是一件非常自私的行为. Ask for wait, is very selfish. 或许因为等你, 他/她错过了他/她最想看的电视剧. Just because of waiting you, he/her might miss his/her favourite movie. 或许因为等你, 他/她饿着肚子. Just because of waiting you, he/her have no time to eat anything. 或许为了等你, 他/她浪费了时间. Just because of waiting you, he/her wasted his/her time. 或许为了等你, 他/她淋了一场雨. Just because of wait you, he/her wet. 但, 肯定的是... But, for sure... 因为等你, 他/她失去了最宝贵的时间. Because of waiting you, he/she lost his/her valuable time. 别人的时间, 你是一辈子也还不了的. Time of other people, you couldn't pay with anything even with your live. 不要叫别人等你, 不然请你给个明确的等待时间好让他/她能在等你的当儿做一些其它事情... Don't ask other to wait for you, or you should give them the duration of time that they have to wait. So that, they can do other thing during the "waiting duration". 不要再自私了. Don't be selfish anymore start now.